This is officially my last blog post and its actually really sad. When making it I knew what my goal was and I knew where I was going and how I wanted to do it. I wanted my blog to be a place where I can ask those I knew whether if I knew them very close or I hardly talked to them at all. I wanted my blog to be a place where people can express themselves and hear their story, how ever it may go. I wanted literally just a little bit of everyone. Gays, Bi Sexuals, Straights, Cats, Frogs… you know the list goes on. But anyways yeah. I liked my idea of how I wanted to do it.
For those who were straight I asked them two questions; being “What makes you happy” and “What do you love about yourself” and for those who have come out of the closet “How did you come out” with the exact other two questions. To me those questions were very simple and easy, yet so deep and makes someone really think. People take a lot for granted in life and these little details should really mean everything. Being happy is really something everyone could want, and knowing what makes you happy is a really big key in life; just being able to know what keeps you going on a daily basis. The second question was a lot more meaningful to me because now and days through out this media people wish to be those who they see online. But honestly you are who you are and you should learn to love yourself and accept yourself for who you are because everyone is beautiful in their own way.
I’d like to thank those were in my blog. It means a lot knowing you can open up to me even if it’s just a little bit about the smallest of details. I hope that through out my blog I was able to tell a story even if it was through others. Our world is cruel and sadly it might only get worse. So we just need to live now, with happiness and positive and just love all around because at the end of the day its all about love and how we come together and see things. Life is beautiful and we really do take everything we have for granted because to a lot of people it’s whatever, but it really isn’t ..
I had a fun time making this blog, I enjoyed learning more about these people even if it was just a little bit and I hope those who have read; Enjoyed it all too. Thank you for reading 🙂
This is Jacquelyne aka JacqueDreams. She is a 15 year old bisexual; and this is her story.
“I wasn’t being myself; I was unhappy. That’s when I realized my happiness matters too. I sat my sister down first and let her know that this is who I am and this is who I love. Eventually that led into my mom and then my brother in law. When it came to my friends I never really ever brought it to their attention or ever really come out to them. It was more like me being able to show interest in both guys and girls and eventually they had just caught on. Although some did have the balls to just come up to me and ask me straight up and of course my answer would just be yes because I was no longer going to hide who I really am.”
Having to come out is probably one of the hardest things anyone has to go through. People will then have the fear of being judged and no longer liked or being looked at differently just because of who you choose to love which is stupid, but unfortunately this is the way our society works. This then leads me on to your happiness and Jacque had a few things to say about what makes her happy.
“What makes me happy is being able to help others. Whether it just giving advice or being there for someone when they need to vent, being able to provide for others when they don’t have it. It doesn’t matter what it is that i’m helping with, just the fact that they chose me to confide in means a lot when people can trust me and it makes my heart happy.”
Being happy is not only trying to make others happy but its revolved around being able to love yourself and being content with who you are; so lastly I had asked her what she loves about herself and basically what makes her who she is.
“What I love about myself is that I am not judgmental, many people believe that others need to look a certain way and act a certain way. And I personally believe the complete opposite which i’m glad I have. Something else I love about myself is that I’ve learned to not give a fuck about anyone else’s opinion and that’s something that used to bother me a lot; but now I couldn’t care less. These are just two awesome qualities that most people lack in this society, but I’ve learned to strengthen them.”
Although I’ve known her for almost 6 yrs, you’ve now learned a lil bit about Jacque too